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“the family is the child's first class”, “the parent is the child's first teacher” these words about education are well known。Family educationThe importance of child development is self-evident, and how education can be effective and interesting to the child's heart is a lifelong lesson for parents。
Today, in the field of family education, the occasional twirling word — “crazy chicken” — — — — — — — — — — and — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — with the implementation of the “two-declining” policy, the technological development of the internet and the change of short video media, family education is also generating new and new attitudes。
On 2 april, on the occasion of the international children's book day, the chinese youth journal, in conjunction with the hundreds of houses, published the " guide for mother and fathers of the year - a report of the creators of 2023 family education " , which is based on a survey of users of the 100-degree app platform and shows new trends in family education。
The birth of a child is the birth of a child, and in exploring the world with a small life, parents also encounter a better self。
From “family matters” to “state matters”, content creators opened new horizons for family education
From 1 january 2022, when the law of the people's republic of china on the promotion of family education was introduced, until 9-15 may 2022, the first family education awareness week was held throughout the country, family education rose from family matters to state matters and internet searches began to climb. The 100-degree search data show that, from october 2022, the 100-degree search index for “home education” exceeded “education”。
The topics related to family education are frequently on the list of 100 degrees of heat, such as “the importance of family education”, “the positive energy of family interaction”, “the famous words of family education”, “the way to educate children”, and are frequently discussed by netizens。
The sharing of experiences with children and the confusion about parenting have become daily social networking for many parents. In 100 degrees, 850,000 content creators have contributed their experience and wisdom to family education. The average monthly search volume of information published by them is over 600 million. These elements are also stimulating interest and communication in family education. From this we can see some interesting contemporary trends in parenting。
For example, the topic of reproduction is the focus of attention for society at large, and this trend is also reflected in the number of content broadcast by creators. It is not only an issue of the times, but also of the souls of parents of childbearing age. “how painful it is for a woman to have a child”, “before and after a girl child”, “what should a wife learn from having a child's husband”, and from the most popular video of those people on the internet, we can see the fear of some young people of childbearing age about the production process and the fear of the cost of childbirth。
A number of creators, from the perspective of the past, describe their real reproductive experiences and help young people of reproductive age to overcome their reproductive anxiety. From pre-pregnancy to pregnancy tests, from the little stickers who take pictures during pregnancy, to the selection secret for the tsukiko centre, from how new mothers breast-feed, to the assessment of how they wet their urine, to the double happiness of the 100-degree creator @mother, using her expertise and experience to inform new mothers. And there are a lot of creators like @suprey, who share the fun of the baby. This has led some of the netizens concerned about whether or not to have a child to feel the “mother's love outbreak” in advance, and the "wielding to have the same daughter overcomes a little fear of reproduction"。
Some experts in the field of deep-tilled family education believe that content creators actively publish parenting experiences and knowledge on internet platforms, helping to raise awareness among parents of the importance of family education。
Zhang tieg, a member of the liao ning society for family education, has had several years of first-line teaching experience. He, who had worked for more than 10 years as a schoolmaster, had a deep sense of the difference in grades and qualities between children growing up in different families. In his view, parents had an inescapable responsibility for the education of their children, and it was clear that parents should not play football with each other in school in the matter of educating their children. “quality family education is not about the love and appreciation of the child, but about the love and appreciation of the heart。
“how to bring a child, not to be born,” xu ji-ming, a best-selling book writer with many children, believes that family education requires learning. He recommended “to be a good learner of parents” and encouraged parents to use classic family education books and advanced parenting to arm themselves. Xu ji-ming hopes that the media and web platforms will be able to spread more active and positive family education theories and methods to more parents, thereby affecting more children。
I've been watching my mom and dad's new-style kids all day
When they gradually became the leading forces of the child after 90, a number of new attitudes and ways of raising children emerged. The core principle of their babies is “unusual”, derived from a number of new and handsome parenting laws, such as “magic defeating magic” and “absorbing child-rearing” and “presuming child-rearing” to play。
These young parents seem to appear “to be a child” and even in the eyes of older parents, the way they raise their children is irresponsible and not serious. In fact, the principle of “unusual” is based on respect for and understanding of small lives, and the essence of the new form of child-rearing is that it is shared equally with children. This period, young parents are using the practice of a harmonious filiation “like a friend to parents”。
From the growth of the 100-degree creator, i'm the smart one, we can look at the unique charms of the new child. It is not just a subject book and a course of interest that accompanys smart sisters to grow up, but it is more than a laughter of the sun's after-morning play: immersion in handbooks, churning mother's net delivery, saving money on her own bank card... The daily life of smart sisters, which conveys the joy of a family's sweetness and growth, and “cures” the viewing netizens, so that they feel the truth of a happy education。
In fact, the new type of baby is not the “first initiative” of young parents, and it is under this method of family education that dr. Qui qui quiu, who was taken from rural schools in reverse to the north. There has been no “mixed-sea tactics” and there has been no catch-up session, and qu qiu has not been anxious and scolded by his parents during the period of poor middle school grades, but rather patiently stood in his perspective to help justify the reasons. In qui qiu's view, the typical feature of the new type of baby is the role of parents as guides, allowing children to experience and feel more than love in their lives。
There is also a special group of people whose current situation with regard to childcare is also receiving increasing attention. They are either “single mothers/dads” who carry the burden of raising a child, or “full-time mothers/dads” who give up their career with a child, who take on more responsibilities in the role of parents, which is called “super-parents”。
The influence of native families on children's “triple view”, character and even growth trajectory is important. Despite the fact that “the happy family is the same and the unfortunate family is different”, most parents are overcoming their family's or their own shortcomings and trying to create a happy and healthy growth climate for their children。
“having and being happy,” the web's information about “super-parents” gives the impression. These 100-degree hot words describe how “super-parents” endure considerable child-rearing pains, such as “lost themselves” “at home anxiously” “the lonely strong” “the hardest job”. And at the same time, they have a lot of fun, like the "sense of achievement" "accomplishing the children" "happiness is simple" "better inside."
Many of the “super-parents” share their own experiences of how to “play in pain”, overcome difficulties and anxiety and impart courage to similar families. Some high-quality creators have also been assisted. The 100-degree creators, who are full-time mothers, @little left and right left, publish on the platform the daily daily records of twins' daughters. With her modest content and positive interaction, she has not only reaped more than 100,000 fans, but has also earned considerable business income. The extra gain in converting the happiness of the baby into wealth has enabled her to experience the “unlimited possibility” of “full-time mothers”。
According to qui zhou, some parents, who are full-time content creators, earn income by sharing child-rearing knowledge, while reducing the financial burden on families and making family relationships more balanced. On the other hand, full-time parents have been distracted from their “too much attention” to their children. According to qui zhou, full-time parents, although they have a longer time to be with their children, such full-time companionship can easily lead to the child becoming a “big baby”. Full-time parents should, first and foremost, avoid over-love and give priority to the empowerment of their children. Second, parents who have left the workplace should not stop making their own progress, constantly acquiring new knowledge and integrating it into parent-child exchanges and family education。
We'll be able to agree on education in psychology and interest
Whether it is a buddhist child or a mad chicken child, two very different concepts of child-rearing often haunt parents. According to the 100-degree theorem, “not paying attention to achievement, only to health”, “incompetence in accepting a child” “with or without” “no grief or anxiety” is a slogan of the “budden child” sect. In the words of the “crazy chickens”, “education boom” “cannot lose” “in the pedagogues” are seen everywhere, but they sometimes wonder whether they are “too hard” to address “childcare anxiety”。
The two concepts continue to compete and occupy the child-rearing highlands of parents in turn. The founders of the 100-degree platform, who have a lot of fans, are the “buddhist child” delegates. She changed her daughter's room to a manual area, where she attached greater importance to her daughter's interests than to the question sea tactics. At a very young age, the morning is already cooking for the mother, enviing the “old mother”。
From toys to handiwork to diy, from creative art to street skateboarding, parents are now increasingly paying attention to the nature of play that guides their children to learn in play and to grow up in an interest education. According to the 2021 survey of quality education and subdivision of industry markets and consumer behaviour data, the size of china's quality education and training sector has been growing year by year, reaching 31. 7 per cent in 2021 and reaching 52. 392 billion yuan in size。
In the 100-degree search, the interest education content in the manual category is the focus of attention, accounting for 30 per cent of the total interest education attention. Dance, culture, programming and music are also about 20% of the attention. The content creators share the most popular content of handmade daily and fun toy assessments, and parents learn how to guide children to learn and feel the charms of an interest education by watching videos such as “challenge to play `folding' with white sugar” and “big butterfly with silver almonds”。
Adolescent mental health needs attention and has become a consensus among parents. The china national mental health development report (2021-2022) indicates that 14. 8 per cent of the adolescent population is at varying levels of risk of depression, higher than the adult population. The blue book of national depression 2022 also states that there is a trend towards rejuvenation among groups with depression, of which 30 per cent are under 18 years of age, and 50 per cent are school students, of whom 41 per cent have been suspended from school due to depression. According to various data, it is urgent to focus on mental education for adolescents。
According to xu, many children now suffer from undue stress, including parents ' anxiety and unrealistic expectations. Some parents develop their children entirely on the basis of their past growth experience and subjective assumptions, which are often unscientific. He cited, for example, the fact that during adolescence, many parents ignored the physical and psychological changes of the child, often focusing only on the child's academic achievements and ignoring the child's emotional aspirations and privacy at that stage. Xu ji-ming recommends that parents respect the psychological needs of the child at different stages of development, respect the child's development patterns and adopt appropriate forms of upbringing to guide the child to a good psychological state。
