Children, who are precious to every parent, are expected to thrive and to play an important role in educating their children, in addition to teachers. Since having children, every minute of life has become colorful and bitterly sweet. So how are we supposed to teach the children right
Summer parenting knowledge
Family climate。
Give the child a pleasant and harmonious family environment. The good and bad atmosphere of the family has a direct impact on the child's physical and mental health and on the development of the child's intellectual potential. In everyday life, children are trained to care for others, to respect their elders and to influence them in their own words and deeds. Parents are the best role models for children. The child can also be taught the story of a pear of poignancy, thereby fostering good character。
Give her face。
When the child makes a mistake, do not let the child be disgraced in public, so that the child may be inferior and counterproductive. In educating the child, parents must be sensitive to the circumstances, methods and attitudes, to the same standards and to the extent possible not to harm the child's self-esteem, which is fragile compared to the will. We have saved her face from outside, while leaving ourselves more space for reflection and time, thus making us more rational and more understanding of children in dealing with issues。
Iii. Development of potential。
Having good habits from an early age helps build self-confidence, which helps children to cope with difficulties, overcome them and make them more successful, which can also benefit them throughout their lives. But most of the children at this point do not understand comity and are sentenced to self-centered measures, and are not psychologically able to withstand minor setbacks. It will be difficult to establish itself in society when they grow up and eventually leave their parents alone. The potential for setbacks in our education is also indispensable and requires the attention of our parents from childhood to let them try to fail。
The use of educational methods。
Good for praise and encouragement. The progress of children is often exaggerated, and sometimes the greater the credit, the better it is. Parents should use positive language to guide and encourage their children, often with unintended effects and sometimes with criticism becoming so perfect。
V. Development of interest。
I've been reading with my kids since i was a kid. Mothers are constantly wondering what kind of game they can play to make their kids happy and grow their knowledge. As parents, we teach children to love and love more than teach them how to do it。
Vi. Listen carefully。
Parents care about their children not only with their eyes “seeing” but also with their ears “hearing”. “listening” is about encouraging children to talk more about their own affairs (kindergartens and what is next to them) and to guide them correctly by “hearing” their hearts。
Vii. Encourage ownership and complement criticism。
Children need encouragement, encouragement is motivation. Every time a child makes progress, we strongly encourage him, so that he will be happy and confident. When you are wrong, like lying, and so on, we still want to be harshly critical of him. At the same time, he would hear why he was doing it, and tell him it was wrong and could not do it。
Viii. Have a child。
Play with him, like a child, into his world. Play some games with the kids, do hand jobs, etc. To have a child's heart, you have to be on the child's side, and not to do anything to him。
Nine, get down and talk to the kids。
We often see parents yelling at the children: "how can you not understand this?" "come on, hear me!" something like this happens to myself, and we are parents who often think that it's so high that the words of order reflect their authority and make the children more obedient. But have you tried another way: to get down and talk to the kids。
Protecting children's self-esteem
The teaching of the most scientific child-rearing knowledge in the presence of the living and outsider can easily harm the self-esteem of the child. In fact, the child's awareness potential is quite strong, and if you don't want him to do something, you shake his head gently, or you stare at him quietly, his kindergarten day care knowledge becomes clear and there is no need to speak out. If you still don't feel comfortable, and you can make a deal with the kids before you go out, then it's a secret between you and me: “if you see dad shaking his head, that means you can't do it; if dad nods, that's agreed.”
Xi. Respect for the independence of the child
As the child grows up, so will his sense of autonomy. When you fed him, he said, “i'll eat myself”, and when you dressed him, he said, “i'll wear myself”, maybe he'll be full of food, maybe he'll put his clothes on a mess, but we don't want to hurt your mood, but we need to trust him, encourage him, give him a chance to learn, or the child will never “ grow up”。
