After more than 20 years of talking, i've seen too many boys make it complicated to chase girls. A gift, a sense of existence, a long essay... And then the girl starts avoiding you. To be honest, the pursuit of girls was difficult, with nine moves at the core, but the vast majority of people were stuck in the second and third. I'll write the lessons of these years' pedals, and save you the bend。
How can you talk to a girl
One of the deadliest things is that chats become "account checks." hello, have you eaten? What are you doing today? Good night. Such a dialogue would allow for three days of perplexing. I learned something later, talking with a visual. Don't ask me, "doesn't it work today?" you said, "i've been knocked by my boss this afternoon, and i'm still buzzing. How's it going?" she can catch it and the subject will live。
One moreDon't be a readerI don't know. She's got an expression bag. You can go back to a similar one. Three seconds of silence is no shame. My ex-girlfriend used to do plays with me, and it was so much more comfortable for two people to look at each other and say it every five minutes。
When are you going after a girl
Too many brothers made a mistake: it's been five days since we talked. No, it's not. The nature of the confession is "recognizing the relationship," not "attacking." you're talking to her when you haven't had enough. My test isWill she come to youI don't know. She hasn't been looking for you for three days. She's just a compliment. Don't worry. She's starting to talk to you, share her routine, and her occasional voice, almost。
It's a simple step to confess. Don't act like a movie. Find a decent occasion to watch her say, "i think we're right for each other." if she hesitates, you give her time, don't ask。
How can you meet a girl
It's getting hotter on the line, and i don't see anything. But don't make it look like i want to see you. It's too purposeful. The best way to do it is to go the other way. You talk about a store, an exhibition, you say, "i'll be there next week. Want to come with?" the two words are a hundred times lighter than "i've made a special appointment for you," and she won't be stressed。
Don't get too busy with the meeting. Two hours is enough. Food's served, a walk, a chat. Save for the next appointment. I've seen brothers meet all day long, from morning to nightThe girl's been watching your phone all dayI can't stand that tension。
The hardest part of the nine moves is not skill. Don't suck your dog alive. The lower you are, the less she takes you seriously. It's normal, it's loose, it's got its own rhythm, it's cold, it's hot. In the end, after the girl, she sees a living person, not a set of words。
