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Many people have lived their lives in limbo, not without effort and bad luck, but on the surface and with the wind. It only replicates the experience of others, the choices of others, the problems it encounters, and it never learns to dig into the bottom of things。
What really opens the gap between people is never an effort or an opportunityFirst principleCognition. To put it simply, to set aside all complex appearances, others' prejudices and secular patterns, to strike at the most fundamental and constant core of one thing。
There's a lot of confusion, indigence, bendingBottom logicI don't know. Whether they are 20 years old, 30 years old, 30 years old, 40 years old, or 40 years old, they can see the truth about life, work, human life, and not 10 years less。
1 the first principle of health: self-regulatory conservation, not medical remediation
Many people are fatally ill about health: they consume their bodies at random, stay up late at night, sit down, eat freely, wait until they are ill and expect medicine and medical treatment。
However, the essence of medical care is merely to remedy and stop the damage, which cannot reverse long-term physical wear and tear. Real health is never managed by hospitals and drugs, but by daily self-regulation. Regularity, moderate motion, abated diet, emotional stability, seemingly small habits, are fundamental to safeguarding the body。
The most cost-effective means of survival for adults is not overweight, which is far more useful than aftercare。
2. The first principle of wealth: continuous accumulation, rather than short-term vortex
Ordinary people always fantasize about being rich all the time, flipping through the game, obscuring in speculation, following the wind to make money, and, in the end, mostly paying off。
The bottom logic of wealth was never luck and speculation, but rather stable accumulation and long-term retention. Making money is power, saving money is recognition, keeping money is wisdom. High-paying but moonlight is less likely to stabilize incomes and save slowly; frequent re-routing, blind and wind entrepreneurship is less likely to add value to a field of deep cultivation。
All long-standing wealth is accumulated daily, without exception。
3. First principle of socialization: value swaps, not deliberate okay
Many people are keen on social incompetence, trying to combine their lives with their hearts, their hearts, their hearts, their hearts, their hearts, their hearts, their hearts, their hearts, their hearts, their hearts, their ears, their eyes, their eyes, their eyes, their eyes, their eyes, their eyes。
The truth at the heart of adult socialization: the essence of a human connection is the exchange of values. You don't have the strength or the value of your own life, and the socialization and the means of communication that you have are no human connection. Instead of spending time trying to please others and integrate into the circle, it is better to settle down and enhance their capabilities。
You're good enough, you don't have to keep it together, you know。
4. The family's first principle: safety, not emotional consumption
Many families are in conflict with each other, complaining about each other, consuming each other, tending to get mixed up, turning old accounts, winning and losing, turning families into emotional battles。
The essence of the family is that it is a safe haven for life, the bottom line of life, not a reasonable and low-level arena. It is only through inclusion, family harmony and mutual understanding, and with little internal consumption and support that the family can enjoy the benefits。
The economic base guarantees a stable life and emotional stability that sustains family harmony, which is fundamental to the long-term prosperity of families。
5. The first principle of growth: continuous iterative rather than in situ consumption
Many appear to be busy, working late every night and learning in fragmentation without progress for years. The core issue is that it is a false effort and that there is no real iterative growth。
The bottom logic of growth has never been time-consuming, self-movement, but a repetition of errors and constant updating of perceptions. A little progress every day, a defect that is changed, a skill learned, a mental error corrected, and a long-term accumulation is a change。
It is the highest level of growth to stop ineffective busyness and mental consumption and to continually optimize yourself。
6. The principle of emotional firstness: self-control, not external compromise
The vast majority of people have bad emotions that come from outside influences: the appreciation of others, the loss of small things, the attitude of others, sudden changes. Emotions are carried away by the outside world, which is prone to internal consumption, anxiety and irritation。
At the very heart of emotional stability, it was never the good of the outside world, the good of everyone, but self-control. No one is expected to understand, no one is afraid of what happens, no one is afraid of what happens, no one is afraid of what happens。
People who can control their emotions can control their lives。
7. The principle of first sex in marriage: two-way fit, not one-sided death
Many have spent many years in their hearts, knowing that they are inappropriate, but are unable to let go; yet they have been forced to fix themselves up and surrender。
The bottom logic of marriage is selection, not transformation. The three-mindedness, character, responsibility and rhythm of life of two people are at the heart of a long-term relationship. The feelings that come with compromise, kindness and tolerance will never last。
The right man doesn't need you, and it's futile for the wrong man to try to fix it。
The principle of the first nature of work: the value of results, not self-motion
The most disadvantaged group in the world of work is the one who appears to be working hard, working hard, working late and working late, without being recognized and promoted。
The workplace is always paid only for results and values, not for hard work and applause. No result, no result, no result, no use. It is important not to worry about how tired and hard it is to pay, but to focus on how much value it has created and how many problems it has solved。
It is at the core of the career progression that self-motivation efforts are stopped and results are focused and efficiency enhanced。
9. The first principle of life: acceptance rather than commitment to success
Many live with fatigue and anxiety, rooted in the success of their deeds. It is expected that life will be smooth, that there will be no imperfections in feelings, that life will be perfect, that there will be a slight lack of patience and anxiety。
The essence of life is indecisive, mixed, bitter, sweet, mixed and not absolutely perfect life. To accept regret, to accept imperfection, to accept world uncertainty, to allow everything to happen and to relax。
If you don't like it, you can live with it。
10. The principle of the first nature of life: taking root, not going outward
Most of the anxiety and suffering of ordinary people come from endless horizontal comparisons. The lower the income, the living, the family, the less the achievement, the more the confusion。
The ultimate logic of life is to take root inside, to be self-inflicted, not to be compared. Each person has different starting points, opportunities and rhythms and does not define his or her success or failure by reference to the other person's life script。
Every day is a little better than the one you used to be, and it's the best way to move forward and settle。
At the end:
The first principle of sexuality is the bottom rule of seeing the nature of things. All confusion, anxiety and internal consumption are by nature contrary to the bottom logic of life。
No need to follow others, no anxiety about the future, no obscuring through these ten core patterns, to move on, to move on, to move forward, to stay steady, to be well and to live a life of pervability at all ages。
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